Nancy Felson

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Nancy Felson
Residing In: Dobbs Ferry, NY USA
Spouse/Partner: Richard Seltzer - fairly new partner
Occupation: Professor Emerita of Classics, UGA.
Children: Four children (Alex, Rachel, Sabrina, Joseph)

Eight grandchildren (Madeleine, Lev & Caroline; More…Mia; Augie & Tessa; Michael & Hannah)
Yes! Attending Reunion
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I'm living in Dobbs Ferry, NY for the last 3 years, to be near two families, one of whom moved this July to Melbourne, Australia. Two of my four brothers live in Cincy, one in Austin, TX, and one in State College, PA.

I retired in June, 2010, after 32 years of teaching Classics at UGA. I then spent a year in Athens, Greece, teaching at the American School for Classical Studies and traveling through Greece and Turkey. After three autumns in Cincy, I decided to be a snow bird for awhile: 4-6 months in New Haven CT (where Alex was teaching before his move), with sojourns to NYC (where Sabrina and family live & work --at VA Hospital), or 4-6 months in Manhattan with sojourns in New Haven. I kept my place in Athens GA till last January, 2022. I've a daughter (Rachel) on the west coast and a son (Joe) in D.C.

A few summers ago I took a ten day "roots tour" of Lithuania, the country my maternal grandfather Jake Raphaelson left in 1892. I found the village, Yonava, where he was born, and the towns where he studied the Talmud before leaving, on his own, for America (at age 14). I used his unpublished autobiography as my guide-book.

My mother Virginia, whom some of you may remember, died in late June, 2016. We held a "nearly 102" birthday party in May, 2016, since she didn't think she'd last to October. She had a very good life, even in her old age. Some of you saw her at a WHHS reunion. My dad died in 1988 at age 75.

I've been enjoying my retirement. I write professional papers and work with two British colleagues on a Performing Pindar project. I'm interested in prison pedagogy and taught in Bard Prison Initiative at a men's prison (a course on Ancient Greek notions of masculinity). I wrote a new chapter for my 1994 book, Regarding Penelope, which examines the figure of Penelope in the Odyssey from multiple perspectives, including (to the extent retrievable) her own. The Center for Hellenic Studies in D.C. will reissue it electronically. I did a "Grammar with Grandma" Zoom with two of my grandkids: fun while it lasted. I ignited an interest in etymology in my Australian granddaughter. That's led me to think about how to teach sentence magic to kids. I may develop this.

School Story:

Just recalled a confrontational moment with Harold Howe III, principal, when he told me it was not appropriate to hold a Fellowship House meeting in a classroom at WHHS. I tried to persuade him -- one of the earliest of my life-time attempts to get administrators to budge in the name of fairness & equality. He wouldn't. At least he was polite.
I wrote editorials with Carol Hines for the Chatterbox and poems, some of them attacking the sorority and fraternity system. I was a marcher in the early Civil Rights Movement. Fellowship House was a second home for me -- a center for organizing civil rights activities, like panels sent out to communities, and picketing Coney Island and sitting in at Woolworth's Counter. It felt like a parallel university to WHHS, where I found the cliques and divisions alienating. (Has it improved?)

I served on student court with Jack Rubinstein and three others, sentencing students for smoking infractions and the like. I was a goody-goody before the 60s came along.

We did sit ins at Woolworth's Counter and helped integrate Coney Island. Fellowship House was an important part of my high school years.

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Hi Joy. Steve's apartment is in the building your grandparent built; he's retired, so it isn't an office building. Nice coincidence, though. Also, my daughter, Rachel Rubin, lives in Eugene. She is an acupuncturist. Did we possibly discuss that at a reunion? How long have you lived there, and why Eugene?

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Aug 24, 2022 at 9:41 PM

Dear classmates,

I want to share a piece that my brother Steve wrote about Bob Brown and add a brief note about the friendship of our parents, Jake Brown and Ben Felson, who grew up together in the West End of Cincinnati.  Jake was one of the speakers at my dad's public memorial in October 1988.  In his talk, he reminisced about their pranks they would play and about entrepreneureal schemes he would develop and our dad would go along with.   I wish I remembered the details.  In any case, I remember Bob at WHHS as a good humored prankster, a challenger of authority.  Only much later did Steve bring me to some exquisite events at Bob's house or in a restaurant.  And during Steve's illness some years ago, Bob was extraordinarily helpful to my nephew Amit and to me.  I hope some of the depth and warmth of the friendship comes through in Steve's writing below.

I'd love a report from those who are able to attend the funeral/memorial on the.28th of August.

Nancy Felson

Here, from my brother:

Our parents were close friends, and Bob was a year behind me at North Avondale, Walnut Hills, and UC Law School. But we only got to know each other well later in life, when I returned to the practice of law in Cincinnati in the early 1990s and Bob offered me a desk in his office so I could “warm up” for a year before going out on my own.

A few years later we started playing casual bridge at Bob’s Indian Hill home. Soon we developed a vague desire to actually learn the game. I was able to suppress mine, but for Bob, as with everything else in his life, the challenge grew until one day he produced two copies of “Bridge for Dummies.” Whither he went, I followed.

With Bob in charge we had to become Life Masters as fast as possible, which meant traveling to tournaments – from Gatlinburg to Toronto, from Indianapolis as far East as Anderson Township. Bob did the driving – also as fast as possible – while I closed my eyes and prayed in the language of my forefathers. And it worked – we always arrived safely, we played hard, and we earned those certificates.

There was also poetry. I regularly warned our bridge opponents never to mention any well-known work, such as Eliot’s “The Waste Land,” or we would have to postpone play while Bob recited it from memory. Even the bridge clock couldn’t stop him.

And, finally, the food. My normal daily consumption of sea urchin roe, caviar, and foie gras has always been minimal, but Bob’s dinner parties offered them in amounts sufficient to sink a small dolphin. I remember every bite, as well as “the rattle of the bones” in his speeding car and his “chuckle spread from ear to ear” at my plea for both of us to survive just a little bit longer.

Of course, Bob would have recognized these references immediately.

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To paraphrase Samuel Beckett: "Vaccines prevent viruses, so do not despair. But viruses mutate, so do not presume."
 
Stephen R. Felson
Attorney at Law
220 Loraine Ave., Suite 2
Cincinnati, Ohio 45220
(513) 520-6348 (tel.)
stevef8953@gmail.com (email)

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Posted on: Aug 24, 2022 at 12:46 PM

Judy, are you still in Larchmont? It would be nice to visit some time. I'm in Dobbs Ferry. I do have a lot of comings and goings. Have not decided yet whether I'll attend the reunion in Cincy.

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Posted on: Jun 06, 2022 at 2:47 PM

Judy, do you still live in Westchester, or have you already moved westward?
Nancy

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Dear Bob,
I'm getting the notices about your recovery and I wish you full health.
Just realized we're almost exactly the same age.
Hoping to see you at the next WHHS reunion.
Nancy

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Jul 06, 2016 at 9:17 PM

My mom and I with her caretaker Carmen on the left. It's been a great run. Many of my classmates knew Virginia and in fact she came to the Rubinstein brunch at our last reunion.
She was 101 3/4. We had pre-birthday party for her a few months ago since she didn't think she'd make it to October 12th. She led a rich and generous life. Just wanted to share this information. Let me know if anyone wants to come to the Memorial.
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Jul 06, 2016 at 9:13 PM

?Memorial Service

?Virginia Raphaelson Felson
October 12th, 1914 — June 30th, 2016
Rockdale Temple, K.K. Bene Israel 8501 Ridge Road, Cincinnati, OH 45236
Sunday, July 10, 2016 at 11 am
Bright clothing please (Virginia’s wishes: no black)
Buffet Luncheon at the Temple following the Service

RSVP for Luncheon to Nancy Felson or 706-254-0424
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Alex (son), Janine, and three grandkids: Caroline, Madeleine, Lev.