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Hi Joy. Steve's apartment is in the building your grandparent built; he's retired, so it isn't an office building. Nice coincidence, though. Also, my daughter, Rachel Rubin, lives in Eugene. She is an acupuncturist. Did we possibly discuss that at a reunion? How long have you lived there, and why Eugene?
Dear classmates,
I want to share a piece that my brother Steve wrote about Bob Brown and add a brief note about the friendship of our parents, Jake Brown and Ben Felson, who grew up together in the West End of Cincinnati. Jake was one of the speakers at my dad's public memorial in October 1988. In his talk, he reminisced about their pranks they would play and about entrepreneureal schemes he would develop and our dad would go along with. I wish I remembered the details. In any case, I remember Bob at WHHS as a good humored prankster, a challenger of authority. Only much later did Steve bring me to some exquisite events at Bob's house or in a restaurant. And during Steve's illness some years ago, Bob was extraordinarily helpful to my nephew Amit and to me. I hope some of the depth and warmth of the friendship comes through in Steve's writing below.
I'd love a report from those who are able to attend the funeral/memorial on the.28th of August.
Nancy Felson
Here, from my brother:
Our parents were close friends, and Bob was a year behind me at North Avondale, Walnut Hills, and UC Law School. But we only got to know each other well later in life, when I returned to the practice of law in Cincinnati in the early 1990s and Bob offered me a desk in his office so I could “warm up” for a year before going out on my own.
A few years later we started playing casual bridge at Bob’s Indian Hill home. Soon we developed a vague desire to actually learn the game. I was able to suppress mine, but for Bob, as with everything else in his life, the challenge grew until one day he produced two copies of “Bridge for Dummies.” Whither he went, I followed.
With Bob in charge we had to become Life Masters as fast as possible, which meant traveling to tournaments – from Gatlinburg to Toronto, from Indianapolis as far East as Anderson Township. Bob did the driving – also as fast as possible – while I closed my eyes and prayed in the language of my forefathers. And it worked – we always arrived safely, we played hard, and we earned those certificates.
There was also poetry. I regularly warned our bridge opponents never to mention any well-known work, such as Eliot’s “The Waste Land,” or we would have to postpone play while Bob recited it from memory. Even the bridge clock couldn’t stop him.
And, finally, the food. My normal daily consumption of sea urchin roe, caviar, and foie gras has always been minimal, but Bob’s dinner parties offered them in amounts sufficient to sink a small dolphin. I remember every bite, as well as “the rattle of the bones” in his speeding car and his “chuckle spread from ear to ear” at my plea for both of us to survive just a little bit longer.
Of course, Bob would have recognized these references immediately.
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Posted on: Aug 24, 2022 at 12:46 PM
Judy, are you still in Larchmont? It would be nice to visit some time. I'm in Dobbs Ferry. I do have a lot of comings and goings. Have not decided yet whether I'll attend the reunion in Cincy.
Posted on: Jun 06, 2022 at 2:47 PM
Judy, do you still live in Westchester, or have you already moved westward?
Nancy
Dear Bob,
I'm getting the notices about your recovery and I wish you full health.
Just realized we're almost exactly the same age.
Hoping to see you at the next WHHS reunion.
Nancy
My mom and I with her caretaker Carmen on the left. It's been a great run. Many of my classmates knew Virginia and in fact she came to the Rubinstein brunch at our last reunion.
She was 101 3/4. We had pre-birthday party for her a few months ago since she didn't think she'd make it to October 12th. She led a rich and generous life. Just wanted to share this information. Let me know if anyone wants to come to the Memorial.
nfelson@gmail.com
?Memorial Service
?Virginia Raphaelson Felson
October 12th, 1914 — June 30th, 2016
Rockdale Temple, K.K. Bene Israel 8501 Ridge Road, Cincinnati, OH 45236
Sunday, July 10, 2016 at 11 am
Bright clothing please (Virginia’s wishes: no black)
Buffet Luncheon at the Temple following the Service
RSVP for Luncheon to Nancy Felson
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